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The inner peace

 "The only one you should impress and transcend is yourself"
According to my humble point of view, the fights we should lead are against ourselves, because the only one responsible for our success is ourselves. We are the determining factor. If we are able to make ourselves surround to us, we can surpass all life's circumstances. We can face all rejections and fails with courage and perseverance, then we can reach what we call the inner peace.
The inner peace is a concept misunderstood by people. Most of us think that the inner peace has a direct relationship with inactivity, which is wrong. You will get nothing if you are inactive. Inactivity is not what we are talking about here, this is another concept called laziness, and lazy people are those lacking this peace mostly, because they have no control on their bodies, which is just a unit of the four elements that form this great entity entitled human being. Each human being is represented as a soul, a mind, a body and a heart. No one can live without one of those elements. To make this coalition with yourself, you should get more control on this four units, by doing so, you will feel like you are ruling the whole world, and you will make yourself succumb to your needs. Yet most people, focus on one or two elements and neglect the other. Religious people and especially those who leave the society to live in a church or a temple; for example, feed their minds and souls and forget about their bodies and hearts. Athletes;  as another example, most of them focus on their bodies and neglect the rest. But this is not a successful and peaceful life. One should not neglect an element, because greatness is upon us, we represent GOD himself. If it happens that a king of a big country send someone to represent him somewhere, does that person have right to go with dirty cloths? does that person have right to be an idiot? hell no, so as human beings, we should make the best representation of God on earth. For me the most perfect way to worship God is, to show people greatness and inspire them to believe in God and his greatness. 
So give your mind the proper knowledge, give you soul the best prayer, give you heart the warming emotions, and feed your body with the perfect nutrition. By doing this, and only by doing this, you will get the inner peace.

The new year resolution-2014 is your year of greatness

Some people in life have a huge enemy, an enemy that they create for themselves. According to me it is the most dangerous enemy of all, because this one is a silent killer and no one is gonna help you to get rid of it, but yourself. Let's call this enemy "will", don't go wrong, I'm not talking here about the will which is the synonym of determination, I'm talking about the verb "to be" in future, people keep saying: next time I will, next year I will start, tomorrow I will do it...people never stop making excuses and postponing what they have to do to some future events, and they forget that there is no perfect moment in life, the best moment is when you realize that you need some changes, the perfect moment is today and now. But most people wish that the next year becomes the year where their greatness starts emerging. So here we are, don't forget the promises you give to yourself, that this year will be better. don't be a victim of the "will", because when you use it, it is like you did it and you forgot about it.
Today I have chosen to show a set of quotes that you should print and stick on your door, I hope this set will help you to start the new year motivated and excited about your life:
  1. No pain no gain-Someone somewhere!
    Seriously this sums up everything, it shows you that you need to fail sometimes to be successful, it shows that you have to work hard even if you don't like that, because without sacrifices you get nothing.
  2. No man has the right to be an amateur in the matter of physical training. It is a shame for a man to grow old without seeing the beauty and strength of which his body is capable-Socrates
    Not only for athletes, each one of us should own a fit and strong body, because you mind and you body belong to the same entity, if one is not good, it will affect the other
  3. Progress is impossible without change, and those who cannot change their minds cannot change anything-Bernard Shaw
    As I said before happiness is the progress, and you can't progress if you can't change you bad habits and start some blessing rituals
  4. Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions-Dalai lama
    So true, some people think that one day they will wake up happy and enjoying their lives, sorry! you will get nothing if you keep waiting.
To finish this article here is two videos to motivate you:

 

and For bodybuilders:




I'm not going to wish you happy new year, instead I wish that all the rest of your life will be happy.

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How to control your emotions

Sometimes in life we get hurt by people, not because they are bad, or because they represent evil, no... just because they are humans, and humans make mistakes, and we all did it at least once, we all hurt someone without even doing it on purpose. But the problem of most of us is that we spend too much energy thinking about what happened to us, instead of thinking about a solution or a way to control our emotions. So too much feelings are bad for you, and if you don't control that you will fail in life, because life is full of events that make emotions, and believe me even good feelings like love can destroy your somehow, when you become so obsessed by someone to the point that all you want is to be with that person, talk to that person and think about that person. It is like you are losing everything to get one thing, which was good a thousands year ago, when Women and Men used to complete each others and not to compete, but I ain't talk about this situation today.
Before knowing how to control our emotions let give a definition to emotions first, for me an emotion is an extra energy that our mind create to make our bodies feel something, bad or good, but the most of time this thing doesn't even exist, it is only our minds which are very powerful that make us believe it, so I think we can control that and it is up to us to stay in a weak situation or to get up. Here is how to control your emotions in my book:
  1. Sport: working out, going to the gym, running ... just move your body and let the bad energy be replaced by some good energy, it works very well, after a gym session you will feel more powerful and relaxed than you have never been.
  2. Talk to someone: sometimes all we need is someone to listen to what we want to say and then we feel better, but choose well a person who doesn't talk too much, because he/she may hurts you with a critic or a comment.
  3. Focus on your dreams: when you are so focused you will not have much energy to spend on something else, it is like you are immune against bad thing, but for that you need much will and much motivation.
  4. Eat healthy: sometimes we get feeling as a result of our diets, because some food we eat, can destabilize our body hormones which can lead to the creation of that extra energy.
Lastly, I would like to say that as humans being we cannot live without emotion, because some are the fuel of our existence, all we have to do is to control our feelings and keep being strong for not being affected.


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Your mind is powerful

Your mind is powerful

Our minds are powerful, but most of us don't know that, they think that success is only a result of hard working, did you ever ask yourself about how to convince yourself to work hard for something?

 
As a human beings, we all get lazy and weak sometimes, it is pretty normal, don't be ashamed, but those who keep moving and never stop are those with a powerful mind, a mind that always keeps telling them that they are worth something, always keeps motivating them and showing them a way to get what they want, and not making excuses to give up and quit, and believe it or not, you are the only one responsible for making your mind telling you whatever you want. Program your mind to tell you something good about yourself and you will always hear an inner voice telling you that you are good and that voice will always encourage you to keep trying once you fail,  but if you keep saying bad things about yourself, all you will hear is bad things, or excuses for your situation, and of course you know that excuses lead to nothing, but to be an average, because great people never make excuses, they find a way to get all they want. people never stop complaining about their life, their skills, their government...and by doing that their minds stop thinking and start waiting , because they believe that something else will come and make their dreams come true, which is not true, I don't know how this people dare to say that they got a dream ? HOW dare you saying that you got a dream and not shutting your mouth up? because when you say it is because of him or her or that...it is like you are lying to yourself and believing the lie, you mind is like a mirror, it will always show you what you keep putting in front of it, because as Henry  ford said:

"If you think you can or you think you can't either way you are right."

your thoughts will always be converted to actions that match them the best, make excuses and you will stop working hard, complain about something and you will be waiting your whole life. at the end of the day the choice is yours, control your thoughts and you will get a powerful mind or be weak and you will get nothing.

How to boost your self-confidence


How to boost your self-confidence

It is taken for granted that self-confidence has a huge impact in each one's life, in deed it is an indispensable ability that can enable people to go for their dreams, and not always waiting for the perfect moment, because in this life if you don't start working for your projects, someone else will do it and he will make it, and trust me nothing is more painful than that, you will feel like you curved your own success.
Some people ask themselves why I didn't do it? why I couldn't get up when I failed? let me answer this question by saying that the only thing capable of stopping you from being a better version of yourself is the lack of self-confident, when you can't trust yourself and your skills, no one else will, but it ain't about the others as I said before, the only one you have to impress and surpass is yourself, but most people can't understand that and they give too much important to others opinions without trusting their abilities, so they end up doing the wrong thing or not even doing something. Charismatic people take from the other their knowledge, their good advices and their support, and losers take negativity and discouragement. The concept of self-confident is the only difference between this two sets of people, and it is so easy to boost it, it only needs some time and some patience, here is according to me 4 things which can help you to get some self-confidence:
  • Surround yourself with people that can recognize your talent or at least encouraging you to work hard for it.
  • Don't stop progressing, regardless your field, there is always some new stuff to know, so get it.
  • Get an associational life, by helping people you will start giving a sens to your life, and you become happier and more confident.
  • Workout and change your body, if your body is not in shape, go to the gym and get fit, because with a good body you can get a strong mentality.
So get some change, and start working hard for your dreams, nothing has the right to stop you even yourself.

Take some risk


Take some risk

Let me tell you this, some of you will not be successful only because they don't want to take some risk, and why is that? because they don't wanna fail, they don't believe that after failing they can get up stronger and powerful, the one who cannot learn from his mistakes will never be able to achieve something, and the one who is willing to reach greatness without being aware that he can't do it perfectly from the first time is just losing his time, and he will end up at a place doing some minuscule task that he doesn't even enjoy, I personally prefer failing  and trying to get up than doing something I don't like, but let me make it easy for you, the life you get is the result of your thoughts, if you believe that you are worth something, you'll go out and you'll get it, and that is by taking some risk and willing to face all the problems that will curb your progress, this set of people will live the life they want, they live life with their rules because at the end of the day nothing will stop them, they have a strong belief that the whole universe is in their side: 

“And, when you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it.”
Paulo Coelho, The Alchemist

But the difference between this set of people and those who are not willing to take some risk, is that this last set, even if they say that they want some change, they will never get it because they do repetitively what they used to do:

"If you do what you have always done, you will get what you have always got"

But my message to this set of people is the following, imagine when you were a child, that when you failed the first time you have tried to walk you stopped, imagine you are still crawling , painful right ? so your life looks like that today, because people around are progressing and you are still doing only what you know to do.

Time management


Time management

No one can dare to negate that time plays the most crucial rule in our lives. Not managing our days and not planning our actions is like being the slave of the others. because when you don't know what to do with your day, be sure there will be always someone to tell you what to do, and you'll accept because you had no plan. So control your life or life will control you. To be honest with you, nothing is more painful than to wake up the morning without knowing what you gonna do, you feel like your life is a set of events which have no interest.
Some people think that managing their time means to work hard the day long without stop, if you think so. Let me tell you that you are wrong. Because time management has more benefit than what you think. When you manage your time you'll have much time to enjoy your day, you may be a gamer, an otaku or whatever, you will always have some time to enjoy your passion, because planning your day means according to me, making the proper moment for the proper task, and by doing this you will see a big change in your life, let me tell you this secret , since the day when I started managing my time I became better on playing games because I was more focused on it.
the bottom line, time management is a vital factor and it has a lot of benefits, here according to me some of those benefits:

  • Feeling good
  • Life starts making sens
  • More time to learn new skills
  • Goal's and dream's achievement
  • Efficiency, even for small tasks
  • Less mistakes
So don't be a puppet, start right now making a list of your priorities and control your life.

Never wait !!


Never wait !!

Yow ! Do you want something ? OK, wait, it will come to you ... No just kidding, you'll get shit by waiting. You are smart enough to understand that waiting will get you nothing but pain.
If you need something go out and look for it, deserve it and own it, never wait until it is given to you, because life never was and will never be about what you have, or how much do you have. At the end of the day it is always about how did  you get it, whether it is about money, fame or a good body. The steps you follow to get what you want are more important.Never ask for something you are not willing to work hard for it. In this regard, if you are doing something you hate, just give up and look for something you like to do, because the road to success is full of obstacles and stumbling-blocks and you'll quit at the first time you face a problem.

"Life ain't about if you'll be successful or you fail, life is about whether you'll give up like cowards or you'll carry on till you get what you want."

So success isn't easy, success is for those people who never wait and never quit, they work hard and they enjoy it, because they believe that sooner or later they will get a reward. Be like them , go out believe in yourself, work hard and ...never wait.

You are gonna be successful

"You are so special to get an average life, shine on like diamond and make the whole world notice your uniqueness"

Hellya

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