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Showing posts with label belief. Show all posts
Showing posts with label belief. Show all posts

5 things which affect your belief

Imagine yourself able to stay positive even after a failure or a rejection. What if you were able to hear an inner voice saying "You are the one", or "You gonna make it", regardless the situation ? don't you want to talk to yourself positively ? Of course you do. Yet most of us cannot afford this  incredible ability because of many factors.

 
In this article we will try to talk about the factors that make us embrace a negative attitude.

Here : The magic of positive belief, we talked about the positive belief and its influence on people's life. We have mentioned also the 5 forms of beliefs that limit our thinking attitude. Today we will represent  5 things which affect our belief:
  1. Parents : Do you remember being told : You are a lazy person. Don't you know to do something correctly. Look to X he is better than you he is a good boy... Those are words of people that love us the most, yet they are not qualified to boost children self-confidence. They don't do it on purpose, but sometimes these words can affect a kid's life. As an advice, parents should read books about children's psychology to know how to deal with their kids.
  2. School and teachers : here is this situation, one day you tried to answer a question, but the teacher looked at you and laughed then the whole class started laughing. Each one of us faced something similar to it. This is what create phobias like the public speaking phobia, or social phobia.
  3. Entourage and friends : Friend impact each others whether positively or negatively, because people tend to team up with other that they admire, so they get easily influenced by others opinions and habits.
  4. Media : The media is a tool with two edges. It can affect your beliefs and it may help you with knowledge, yet most people cannot chose the right side and especially teenagers, so they end up embracing beliefs that doesn't suit them.
  5. Yourself : be aware of what you say to yourself, because you are today in a place where your past beliefs brought you, and tomorrow you will be in a place based on your today's beliefs.
never think that is too late, you can adjust your belief at any moment of your life, all you need is faith, perseverance and patience.In our next article we will show you techniques that help to replace the negative belief by a positive one.

that's it, please share and comment if you like this article, and you are gonna be successful.
2:21 PM

Knowledge equals power


A wise man once said : "teach a man and he will never learn", and this is the problem of most people. They tend to think that in order to get knowledge they must have a perfect teacher, the perfect book or the perfect opportunity...so they end up waiting their whole lives for this magical element, which will never come to them.
Teachers exist to show you the right path, to make you able to continue the walk by yourself. If you think it is up to a teacher to make you succeed in life, you are absolutely wrong, because the journey is yours, it is your duty to fight and struggle for information and knowledge, don't wait for someone's else sympathy, no one is gonna help you, because we live in world where knowledge equals power. People are too egoist to share this power, yet thanks GOD, in this same world some great people make awesome books and articles to help anyone learn anywhere and anytime. Gone those days when people in order to learn, they had to travel faraway to become disciples of some weird temple's masters, today just via one click the world is yours.
The second thing to know, is that back in the day when people used to go to temples to seek for knowledge, rare does who went back to their homes not being a master too, because the knowledge they get is not a bunch of sentences written in a book or whatever. They used to make of that field  a way of living, they eat it, they breath it, they dream of it and mostly they apply it, and that was the most effective way of learning. Unfortunately, today most student at schools don't even know why they learn what they learn Sometimes it is due to the educational systems, and sometimes because they  were obliged to choose that field.
The process of learning and getting this ultimate form of power which is knowledge can be described as following: Once you find your true passion and inclination, start reading and getting information about it anyhow, because at the beginning all we have about a field are prejudgments, we are outsiders. The second to do is, to find a way to apply this knowledge in our daily life. By applying you learn more quickly and effectively. The third phase, is what Robert Greene call Mastery, the ultimate level which you can reach only by getting involved and practicing over and over.
Keep in mind that the process of learning and mastering needs time, courage and stamina. It is simple but not easy, most people give quickly so they never reach the ultimate power, don't be like them, be special, because you are unique and you are gonna be successful.
11:24 AM

The power of belief

Do you know why most of people don't succeed ? simply because they keep waiting for somebody else to believe in their dreams, the problem is that they think once people start believing in their goals and supporting them they will make it. They forget the most important aspect of success which is to belief in your own dream. If you can't belief  in your dream, you will not make it, even if the whole world do.

Let me tell the story of somebody you may already know. He was a man who:
  • went bankrupt at the age of 31 years old
  • was defeated in parliamentary elections at 32 years old
  • again got bankrupt at 34 years old
  • Saw his girlfriend died at 35 years old
  • had a nervous breakdown at 36 years
  • was defeated in the local elections at the age of 38 years 
  • was defeated in the congressional elections in 43 years
  • was defeated in the congressional elections at the age of 46 years old and again at 48years old
  • was defeated in elections to the Senate at age 55
  • could not register for election to the vice presidency at age 56
  • was defeated in the Senate elections at 58 years old
  • was elected President of the United States at the age of 60
His name is Abraham Lincoln. I'm sure that many of us could commit suicide at half of what happened to him, but he kept moving and he never gave up, and at the end he got what he is worth. Some will start asking themselves about what made him go through all this and not quiting, which kind of energy and fuel he had? the answer is so simple, he was a man of belief. He he never stopped believing in himself or in his abilities. He faced all kind of rejections but still he kept dreaming and working. This kind of men are rare today, because we are living in a soft generation, most of you had already all they want, and still they are complaining about life, we all started losing trust in ourselves and we stopped believing in our own success.

 So stop looking down to yourself, you deserve it, you are worth it, you are already great but you should show the whole world your greatness.


at the end I would like to share with you a video that I made, it is my first one, I hope you like it:

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1:09 PM

How to deal with stress


Stress can destroy your life if you don't deal with it effectively, and especially the negative one. Stress can also harm your body and affect your health. It has been proven that stress can make you suffer from some diseases such as: Stomach ulcers, memory lost, high blood pressure...and many others.

Did you know that in the last year more than 77% of citizens of the united stats claim to regularly experience physical symptoms caused by stress?

worse! 73 % experience psychological symptoms and 33 % Feel they are living with extreme stress, furthermore they all claim that this, is affecting negatively their lives but they can do nothing about it, because they think that success is  like that. Sorry to tell that this is stupid. Success is being able to do what we like and enjoy it. Those who are stressed all the day cannot call themselves successful people. Life is about enjoyment and personal satisfaction  and you cannot get that if you stress about nothing and everything.
Before moving to solutions let talk a little bit about causes. I think that money is the cause number one, because we live in a world of capitalism. Everyone want more and we all got affected by the demoniac marketing strategies. So we buy everything they present to us, even if we don't really need to. So here according to American Psychological Association, American Institute of Stress, seven causes of stress:
  1. Job Pressure
  2. Money
  3. Health
  4. Relationships
  5. Poor nutrition
  6. Media overload
  7. Sleep deprivation 
So many think that it is something we can't control or it has to be. Yes! It is true. Sometimes stress can have a positive impact on you, because it can play the rule of a motivator that makes you work harder, but as I said before lot of it will destroy your life, so we have to be attention with this. So let me present to you this set of tips to help you deal with stress:
  1. Free your mind from time to time: you can do that by yoga, meditation, getting a massage or if you a religious person you should pray to your creator.
  2. Do some art: artworks need lot of imagination which can help you stop thinking too much about the problems you face.
  3. Workout: for me working out is the solution of both mental and physical problems
  4. Learn how to control your emotions: I talked about this here, check it out for more details
According to Dale Carnegie the most effective way to control stress is by solving immediately our problems, and here is according to him how to do it:
  • Get all the facts
  • Weigh all the facts – then come to a decision
  • Once a decision is reached – ACT!! 
This is it, I hope it will help and never forget, You are gonna be successful
2:07 PM

The new year resolution-2014 is your year of greatness

Some people in life have a huge enemy, an enemy that they create for themselves. According to me it is the most dangerous enemy of all, because this one is a silent killer and no one is gonna help you to get rid of it, but yourself. Let's call this enemy "will", don't go wrong, I'm not talking here about the will which is the synonym of determination, I'm talking about the verb "to be" in future, people keep saying: next time I will, next year I will start, tomorrow I will do it...people never stop making excuses and postponing what they have to do to some future events, and they forget that there is no perfect moment in life, the best moment is when you realize that you need some changes, the perfect moment is today and now. But most people wish that the next year becomes the year where their greatness starts emerging. So here we are, don't forget the promises you give to yourself, that this year will be better. don't be a victim of the "will", because when you use it, it is like you did it and you forgot about it.
Today I have chosen to show a set of quotes that you should print and stick on your door, I hope this set will help you to start the new year motivated and excited about your life:
  1. No pain no gain-Someone somewhere!
    Seriously this sums up everything, it shows you that you need to fail sometimes to be successful, it shows that you have to work hard even if you don't like that, because without sacrifices you get nothing.
  2. No man has the right to be an amateur in the matter of physical training. It is a shame for a man to grow old without seeing the beauty and strength of which his body is capable-Socrates
    Not only for athletes, each one of us should own a fit and strong body, because you mind and you body belong to the same entity, if one is not good, it will affect the other
  3. Progress is impossible without change, and those who cannot change their minds cannot change anything-Bernard Shaw
    As I said before happiness is the progress, and you can't progress if you can't change you bad habits and start some blessing rituals
  4. Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions-Dalai lama
    So true, some people think that one day they will wake up happy and enjoying their lives, sorry! you will get nothing if you keep waiting.
To finish this article here is two videos to motivate you:

 

and For bodybuilders:
I'm not going to wish you happy new year, instead I wish that all the rest of your life will be happy.

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2:14 PM

You are gonna be successful

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