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5 things which affect your belief

Imagine yourself able to stay positive even after a failure or a rejection. What if you were able to hear an inner voice saying "You are the one", or "You gonna make it", regardless the situation ? don't you want to talk to yourself positively ? Of course you do. Yet most of us cannot afford this  incredible ability because of many factors.

 
In this article we will try to talk about the factors that make us embrace a negative attitude.

Here : The magic of positive belief, we talked about the positive belief and its influence on people's life. We have mentioned also the 5 forms of beliefs that limit our thinking attitude. Today we will represent  5 things which affect our belief:
  1. Parents : Do you remember being told : You are a lazy person. Don't you know to do something correctly. Look to X he is better than you he is a good boy... Those are words of people that love us the most, yet they are not qualified to boost children self-confidence. They don't do it on purpose, but sometimes these words can affect a kid's life. As an advice, parents should read books about children's psychology to know how to deal with their kids.
  2. School and teachers : here is this situation, one day you tried to answer a question, but the teacher looked at you and laughed then the whole class started laughing. Each one of us faced something similar to it. This is what create phobias like the public speaking phobia, or social phobia.
  3. Entourage and friends : Friend impact each others whether positively or negatively, because people tend to team up with other that they admire, so they get easily influenced by others opinions and habits.
  4. Media : The media is a tool with two edges. It can affect your beliefs and it may help you with knowledge, yet most people cannot chose the right side and especially teenagers, so they end up embracing beliefs that doesn't suit them.
  5. Yourself : be aware of what you say to yourself, because you are today in a place where your past beliefs brought you, and tomorrow you will be in a place based on your today's beliefs.
never think that is too late, you can adjust your belief at any moment of your life, all you need is faith, perseverance and patience.In our next article we will show you techniques that help to replace the negative belief by a positive one.

that's it, please share and comment if you like this article, and you are gonna be successful.
2:21 PM

Knowledge equals power


A wise man once said : "teach a man and he will never learn", and this is the problem of most people. They tend to think that in order to get knowledge they must have a perfect teacher, the perfect book or the perfect opportunity...so they end up waiting their whole lives for this magical element, which will never come to them.
Teachers exist to show you the right path, to make you able to continue the walk by yourself. If you think it is up to a teacher to make you succeed in life, you are absolutely wrong, because the journey is yours, it is your duty to fight and struggle for information and knowledge, don't wait for someone's else sympathy, no one is gonna help you, because we live in world where knowledge equals power. People are too egoist to share this power, yet thanks GOD, in this same world some great people make awesome books and articles to help anyone learn anywhere and anytime. Gone those days when people in order to learn, they had to travel faraway to become disciples of some weird temple's masters, today just via one click the world is yours.
The second thing to know, is that back in the day when people used to go to temples to seek for knowledge, rare does who went back to their homes not being a master too, because the knowledge they get is not a bunch of sentences written in a book or whatever. They used to make of that field  a way of living, they eat it, they breath it, they dream of it and mostly they apply it, and that was the most effective way of learning. Unfortunately, today most student at schools don't even know why they learn what they learn Sometimes it is due to the educational systems, and sometimes because they  were obliged to choose that field.
The process of learning and getting this ultimate form of power which is knowledge can be described as following: Once you find your true passion and inclination, start reading and getting information about it anyhow, because at the beginning all we have about a field are prejudgments, we are outsiders. The second to do is, to find a way to apply this knowledge in our daily life. By applying you learn more quickly and effectively. The third phase, is what Robert Greene call Mastery, the ultimate level which you can reach only by getting involved and practicing over and over.
Keep in mind that the process of learning and mastering needs time, courage and stamina. It is simple but not easy, most people give quickly so they never reach the ultimate power, don't be like them, be special, because you are unique and you are gonna be successful.
11:24 AM

Motivation is inside you


We all keep looking for some motivation, and especially when we feel so lazy, but the problem of most of us is that we search in the wrong areas. It is true that the stories of successful people and those who faced fail and they got up, spark all kind of inspiration and motivation, but let me tell you this, you have something better inside you. Something that can make you work even if you don't like it, something that will enable you to leave your comfortable bed and go to the gym.

No one can dare to negate that we cannot apply any rule to all human beings, so when it comes to motivation every single person should have his own. Each one of us must have his proper fuel, something that make our dreams special and unique, because if you think that money or fame can push you to your limits you are absolutely wrong. The only thing that make people go ahead and reaching their goals is emotion, because as I said before emotions create motion. It can be love, brotherhood, patriotism...or even anger. Hell yeah !! sometime even a bad feeling can be a motivator. Look to the story of some great people of our time like Les brown who wanted to succeed to buy his mother a house, or Eric thomas who went back to school to make something special so that his son doesn't quit school as he did, or Anthony robbins who mad a promise to himself that each thanks-given he will feed a family or more. this is what most successful people call a "WHY", and you already have it, because it is inside you, it is something that will help you achieve your goals. So look inside, get your "WHY" and stop waiting and seeking for something that doesn't suit you, you are unique, as your must motivation be. 

Never forget, you are gonna be successful.

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2:13 PM

The new year resolution-2014 is your year of greatness

Some people in life have a huge enemy, an enemy that they create for themselves. According to me it is the most dangerous enemy of all, because this one is a silent killer and no one is gonna help you to get rid of it, but yourself. Let's call this enemy "will", don't go wrong, I'm not talking here about the will which is the synonym of determination, I'm talking about the verb "to be" in future, people keep saying: next time I will, next year I will start, tomorrow I will do it...people never stop making excuses and postponing what they have to do to some future events, and they forget that there is no perfect moment in life, the best moment is when you realize that you need some changes, the perfect moment is today and now. But most people wish that the next year becomes the year where their greatness starts emerging. So here we are, don't forget the promises you give to yourself, that this year will be better. don't be a victim of the "will", because when you use it, it is like you did it and you forgot about it.
Today I have chosen to show a set of quotes that you should print and stick on your door, I hope this set will help you to start the new year motivated and excited about your life:
  1. No pain no gain-Someone somewhere!
    Seriously this sums up everything, it shows you that you need to fail sometimes to be successful, it shows that you have to work hard even if you don't like that, because without sacrifices you get nothing.
  2. No man has the right to be an amateur in the matter of physical training. It is a shame for a man to grow old without seeing the beauty and strength of which his body is capable-Socrates
    Not only for athletes, each one of us should own a fit and strong body, because you mind and you body belong to the same entity, if one is not good, it will affect the other
  3. Progress is impossible without change, and those who cannot change their minds cannot change anything-Bernard Shaw
    As I said before happiness is the progress, and you can't progress if you can't change you bad habits and start some blessing rituals
  4. Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions-Dalai lama
    So true, some people think that one day they will wake up happy and enjoying their lives, sorry! you will get nothing if you keep waiting.
To finish this article here is two videos to motivate you:

 

and For bodybuilders:
I'm not going to wish you happy new year, instead I wish that all the rest of your life will be happy.

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2:14 PM

How to manage your time

How to manage your time

When you ask some of us about why they can't get some change, by improving themselves, reading, going to the gym, they make the horrible excuse which is not having much time, they can't understand that we all have the same amount of hours in our days, whether you are a loser or a winner, we all have 24h, regardless who we are, but in this life those who are able to win, are those who can manage very well their time, and let me tell you this, your problem is not with time, you problem is with your priorities, you are so attached to what you are doing during your days to the point that you think that it is essential for your existence. So don't lie to yourself by saying that you have no time, I'm sure that you are doing a lot of things that only consume your time without giving something interesting back to you, Chatting on facebook, going out with your friends on a daily basis, watching TV nightly...all this shit is just killing some cells in your mind, you'll get no knowledge, no ideas, no inspiration by doing this, but most of you, are not doing what they do to get something in return, yet to just kill the time when they are so lazy to do something.
You don't need much to manage your time, here is what you need:
  • A pen
  • A notebook
  • Some wisdom to choose well your priorities
  • 10minutes before going to bed
  • Perseverance to not let any one interfere with your plan.
here is what you have to do, note that to change your bad habits you will need some time so be patient:
  • Note every single thing you do during  a day for about a week with the amount of time you spend on each one
  • Make two lists, the first one for necessities, and the second one for what you can replace
  • Then, start replacing the half time of the useless things by some useful stuff, but don't replace all the list at once, you will get some pain and you'll quit
  • Once you feel comfortable, start moving completely some of the bad habits.
  • Now you will be able to plan your days
Here are some advices for planning your days:
  • Start always by the easiest tasks
  • Always finish what you have started
  • Deliver some of your work to people you trust (not all the work LOL)
  • Be ready for the unexpected by having a plan B
Good luck !!

3:21 PM

A great man-Nelson Mandela


A great man-Nelson Mandela

Yesterday the world lost a great man, someone who showed us that an individual with good principals will always reach his goals, he suffered a lot to get what he is worth, he failed not once but twice and more, but he never gave up, he never abandoned his call, regardless the pain, regardless the harm, because he believed in himself and in his motto.
But people as wise as him never died, they always leave a legacy to be appreciated by the generations after, and this a set of his best quotes:

  • "I learned that courage was not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it. The brave man is not he who does not feel afraid, but he who conquers that fear."
  •  "Education is the most powerful weapon which you can use to change the world."
  •  "For to be free is not merely to cast off one's chains, but to live in a way that respects and enhances the freedom of others."
  • "It always seems impossible until its done."

  •  "Money won't create success, the freedom to make it will."

Rest in peace Nelson Mandela.
1:39 PM

Get some change

Bruce lee Quote
Get some change

Change is possible, and change is gonna come sooner or later, but it may be a good change as it may be a bad change, because in life there is no stability, whether you like or not, you have only two choices, to be successful or to lose like cowards, there is no between, there is no average. But the problem of most people is that they are seeking for success without willing some change, they want to rise but they don't want to get up early, they want greatness, but they don't learn some new stuff, people are too lazy to progress, HOW DARE YOU ? you out there stop making excuses, stop saying it is because of him or her or that, because your dream belong to you only, so you have to assume your responsibilities and start working for your goals without waiting something from someone, show the whole world that you are worth something, show people how great you are. but it isn't about people, your main battle is with yourself, the only one you must impress and surpass is yourself, because happiness is the inner voice inside you which tells that you become a better version of you, that voice which is saying to you "Good boy keep doing that", but you ain't get that voice by lying to yourself, because your subconsciousness knows you better than you know yourself, to sum up my idea here I would like to say that change needs some action, and only action can lead you to greatness, because greatness is upon you, you just have to reveal it, as Eric thomas says : "Greatness is upon you, you better act like it".

2:59 PM

Don't be this person


Don't be this person

In this article I will share with you the kind of person that you should not look like, because this set of human being never succeed. and if you are around them you won't too, because their problems in most of time are contagious, so be careful about whom you are dealing with, and protect yourself by staying away of them.

  1. The "you can't" man: in his book you must have a super extraterrestrial power to be successful, and he can never admit that success is achievable by some belief and working hard.
  2. The bumbler: always hesitating, and never taking the initiative, thinks that he will get punched on the face if he tries something, but guess what !? no one is gonna punched you, so be fearless try and retry until you get what you worth.
  3. The garrulous: Sometimes I feel like I have to tell him"SHUT THE F**K UP", stop talking too much and sharing your dreams with the whole world, because no one gives a damn about your goals, people only believe in what you have achieved. but there is another big problem with talking too much, is that when you tell people about your goals, your subconsciousness send some satisfaction to your body like you did it and like you make it come true,so you forget about it and you stop working on it.
  4. The arrogant: never let people tell him about his mistakes because, according to him, he is Einstein when it comes to Science, Micheal Jordan when it comes to sport, and Beethoven in Art. He is the master of every life's aspect, so he needs no education, no books, no advices , all he wants is to talk and spread his ideas without being stopped.
  5. The weak: The "you can't" exists because there is out there some weak people who believe every single word you tell them, they give much importance to people's reaction, they do nothing to satisfy themselves, they only remain to please the others.
your dreams are too great to be stopped by something or someone, be fearless, forget about people and rise, and when somebody tells that you can't do something you must do it to show him how great you are.
3:08 PM

Motivation

Motivation

The most difficult step while you are trying to reach your goals is to stay motivated and excited about your objectives the whole duration.as long as you can do this, be sure that you will achieve your targets, but most people cannot afford that, furthermore in general they quit and forget about  their dreams after a while of time, and some of them quit even before trying, just because someone told them they can't or it will not work. So be sure that motivation is the key of your success and it is the only thing that will enable you to get up once you are down.

Here is 4 things that will help you to stay focused and motivated:

  1. Do something you enjoy: As I said before, if you are doing some stuff you don't like or you cant stand, you will never be as motivated as if the stuff you were doing, is bringing to you some personal  satisfaction.
  2. Stay away from cowards: you know those people who put their fingers on your face and tell you can't do it or it is too difficult, don't ever believe them, because people can't do something themselves they wanna tell you you can't do it as Will smith said.
  3. Always start small: Start with 50% of your capacities and gradually develop and progress because Happiness is the progress
  4. Manage your time: I talked about this here ,but give yourself a reward (a piece of chocolate as an example, but not too much :P) after each task.
So keep in mind that your life belong to you only, you are the one responsible for your actions, choose well your objectives and go out and rise, because in life you have no choices but to rise or to be forgotten.
4:21 PM

Happiness is the progress


 Happiness is the progress

What is happiness ? to get a ferrari or to be very rich or maybe to be very famous ? haven't you ever heard about someone who had all this shit and killed himself ? true story, there was and there will always be somebody who has everything but he is suffering from depression. You may have the whole world, but if you can't progress you will always hear an inner voice inside you saying that you are still stupid. You may say bullshit, or what the F**k he is saying, but it is the truth, because your subconsciousness never lies and it will always tell the truth about yourself, and it is up to you to make it tell you whatever you want, and this is by progressing on whatever you are doing, even with some small progress you can convince your subconsciousness that you are the king of the world. Simply because it doesn't understand whether you were an average person and you became a very known rock-star, or you were a  simple gym trainer and you became Arnold schwarzenegger, your subconsciousness only understands that you started from A and you reached B, regardless you activity domain.

Happiness is an emotion that we can control but an emotion needs all the time some motion, so get up, move your ass, try something and progress, and be sure that you will feel like you own the world, and here according to me how to progress:

  1. Take some time for yourself and for thinking about what you are doing, 20minutes each day is not much but it will help you to know better yourself and your skills.
  2. Read books, OK ... I know, reading books is not the most amazing thing at the beginning but let me tell you this, I used to be like you, but once I started reading I became addict to it, I can't see my life without books.
  3. Surround yourself with some good skilled people, whom can always remind you that you have to progress.
3:46 AM

Time management

 

Time management

No one can dare to negate that time plays the most crucial rule in our lives. Not managing our days and not planning our actions is like being the slave of the others. because when you don't know what to do with your day, be sure there will be always someone to tell you what to do, and you'll accept because you had no plan. So control your life or life will control you. To be honest with you, nothing is more painful than to wake up the morning without knowing what you gonna do, you feel like your life is a set of events which have no interest.
Some people think that managing their time means to work hard the day long without stop, if you think so. Let me tell you that you are wrong. Because time management has more benefit than what you think. When you manage your time you'll have much time to enjoy your day, you may be a gamer, an otaku or whatever, you will always have some time to enjoy your passion, because planning your day means according to me, making the proper moment for the proper task, and by doing this you will see a big change in your life, let me tell you this secret , since the day when I started managing my time I became better on playing games because I was more focused on it.
the bottom line, time management is a vital factor and it has a lot of benefits, here according to me some of those benefits:

  • Feeling good
  • Life starts making sens
  • More time to learn new skills
  • Goal's and dream's achievement
  • Efficiency, even for small tasks
  • Less mistakes
So don't be a puppet, start right now making a list of your priorities and control your life.
7:51 AM

Life is like chemistry


Life is like chemistry

Life is so simple, to get things you have to sacrifice other things, so it is up to you to choose what to get and what to sacrifice, because you are the only responsible for your acts, choose well your objectives, and choose well what you want to sacrifice. Your life depends on it because the more important what you wanna leave is the more amazing things you'll get. you have the right to dream bigger, and if you think that you make it come true by what you are doing now, you are wrong, because it is something  that needs time, dedication and belief, in order to get what you want you have to change your bad habits and start some blessing rituals, and you need to organize your life, give up some sleep to get some hours for making your life better, it may be by reading a book or learning some new stuff, give up some parties to go to the gym, and more important give up waiting and start right now, here according to my humble point of view the four things you need to be successful:

1-Believe you can do it: without belief just stop and boost your confidence, you are the only one who can do it, never make excuses.
  
“Whatever the mind can conceive and believe, it can achieve.” 

2-Organize your life: Organization can start with the small things, look around you ... and arrange your stuff, make your room look better, without that you'll always feel sad and lazy.

“An idea can only become a reality once it is broken down into organized, actionable elements.”   

3-Work hard: no one is born as an expert we all have the same abilities, but there is those who work hard to be better, and there is those people who say " we are not good" even without trying.

 "Far and away the best prize that life has to offer is the chance to work hard at work worth doing." 

4-Never quit: you are working hard, your life is well organized, and still you are suffering, so don't give up before you get a reward, you suffered enough.

"Winners never quit and quitters never win."
5:04 PM

Never wait !!


Never wait !!

Yow ! Do you want something ? OK, wait, it will come to you ... No just kidding, you'll get shit by waiting. You are smart enough to understand that waiting will get you nothing but pain.
If you need something go out and look for it, deserve it and own it, never wait until it is given to you, because life never was and will never be about what you have, or how much do you have. At the end of the day it is always about how did  you get it, whether it is about money, fame or a good body. The steps you follow to get what you want are more important.Never ask for something you are not willing to work hard for it. In this regard, if you are doing something you hate, just give up and look for something you like to do, because the road to success is full of obstacles and stumbling-blocks and you'll quit at the first time you face a problem.

"Life ain't about if you'll be successful or you fail, life is about whether you'll give up like cowards or you'll carry on till you get what you want."

So success isn't easy, success is for those people who never wait and never quit, they work hard and they enjoy it, because they believe that sooner or later they will get a reward. Be like them , go out believe in yourself, work hard and ...never wait.
1:41 PM

You are gonna be successful

"You are so special to get an average life, shine on like diamond and make the whole world notice your uniqueness"

Hellya

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