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5 things which affect your belief

Imagine yourself able to stay positive even after a failure or a rejection. What if you were able to hear an inner voice saying "You are the one", or "You gonna make it", regardless the situation ? don't you want to talk to yourself positively ? Of course you do. Yet most of us cannot afford this  incredible ability because of many factors.

 
In this article we will try to talk about the factors that make us embrace a negative attitude.

Here : The magic of positive belief, we talked about the positive belief and its influence on people's life. We have mentioned also the 5 forms of beliefs that limit our thinking attitude. Today we will represent  5 things which affect our belief:
  1. Parents : Do you remember being told : You are a lazy person. Don't you know to do something correctly. Look to X he is better than you he is a good boy... Those are words of people that love us the most, yet they are not qualified to boost children self-confidence. They don't do it on purpose, but sometimes these words can affect a kid's life. As an advice, parents should read books about children's psychology to know how to deal with their kids.
  2. School and teachers : here is this situation, one day you tried to answer a question, but the teacher looked at you and laughed then the whole class started laughing. Each one of us faced something similar to it. This is what create phobias like the public speaking phobia, or social phobia.
  3. Entourage and friends : Friend impact each others whether positively or negatively, because people tend to team up with other that they admire, so they get easily influenced by others opinions and habits.
  4. Media : The media is a tool with two edges. It can affect your beliefs and it may help you with knowledge, yet most people cannot chose the right side and especially teenagers, so they end up embracing beliefs that doesn't suit them.
  5. Yourself : be aware of what you say to yourself, because you are today in a place where your past beliefs brought you, and tomorrow you will be in a place based on your today's beliefs.
never think that is too late, you can adjust your belief at any moment of your life, all you need is faith, perseverance and patience.In our next article we will show you techniques that help to replace the negative belief by a positive one.

that's it, please share and comment if you like this article, and you are gonna be successful.
2:21 PM

How to control your emotions

Sometimes in life we get hurt by people, not because they are bad, or because they represent evil, no... just because they are humans, and humans make mistakes, and we all did it at least once, we all hurt someone without even doing it on purpose. But the problem of most of us is that we spend too much energy thinking about what happened to us, instead of thinking about a solution or a way to control our emotions. So too much feelings are bad for you, and if you don't control that you will fail in life, because life is full of events that make emotions, and believe me even good feelings like love can destroy your somehow, when you become so obsessed by someone to the point that all you want is to be with that person, talk to that person and think about that person. It is like you are losing everything to get one thing, which was good a thousands year ago, when Women and Men used to complete each others and not to compete, but I ain't talk about this situation today.
Before knowing how to control our emotions let give a definition to emotions first, for me an emotion is an extra energy that our mind create to make our bodies feel something, bad or good, but the most of time this thing doesn't even exist, it is only our minds which are very powerful that make us believe it, so I think we can control that and it is up to us to stay in a weak situation or to get up. Here is how to control your emotions in my book:
  1. Sport: working out, going to the gym, running ... just move your body and let the bad energy be replaced by some good energy, it works very well, after a gym session you will feel more powerful and relaxed than you have never been.
  2. Talk to someone: sometimes all we need is someone to listen to what we want to say and then we feel better, but choose well a person who doesn't talk too much, because he/she may hurts you with a critic or a comment.
  3. Focus on your dreams: when you are so focused you will not have much energy to spend on something else, it is like you are immune against bad thing, but for that you need much will and much motivation.
  4. Eat healthy: sometimes we get feeling as a result of our diets, because some food we eat, can destabilize our body hormones which can lead to the creation of that extra energy.
Lastly, I would like to say that as humans being we cannot live without emotion, because some are the fuel of our existence, all we have to do is to control our feelings and keep being strong for not being affected.


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2:53 PM

Your mind is powerful

Your mind is powerful

Our minds are powerful, but most of us don't know that, they think that success is only a result of hard working, did you ever ask yourself about how to convince yourself to work hard for something?

 
As a human beings, we all get lazy and weak sometimes, it is pretty normal, don't be ashamed, but those who keep moving and never stop are those with a powerful mind, a mind that always keeps telling them that they are worth something, always keeps motivating them and showing them a way to get what they want, and not making excuses to give up and quit, and believe it or not, you are the only one responsible for making your mind telling you whatever you want. Program your mind to tell you something good about yourself and you will always hear an inner voice telling you that you are good and that voice will always encourage you to keep trying once you fail,  but if you keep saying bad things about yourself, all you will hear is bad things, or excuses for your situation, and of course you know that excuses lead to nothing, but to be an average, because great people never make excuses, they find a way to get all they want. people never stop complaining about their life, their skills, their government...and by doing that their minds stop thinking and start waiting , because they believe that something else will come and make their dreams come true, which is not true, I don't know how this people dare to say that they got a dream ? HOW dare you saying that you got a dream and not shutting your mouth up? because when you say it is because of him or her or that...it is like you are lying to yourself and believing the lie, you mind is like a mirror, it will always show you what you keep putting in front of it, because as Henry  ford said:

"If you think you can or you think you can't either way you are right."

your thoughts will always be converted to actions that match them the best, make excuses and you will stop working hard, complain about something and you will be waiting your whole life. at the end of the day the choice is yours, control your thoughts and you will get a powerful mind or be weak and you will get nothing.

1:06 PM

How to manage your time

How to manage your time

When you ask some of us about why they can't get some change, by improving themselves, reading, going to the gym, they make the horrible excuse which is not having much time, they can't understand that we all have the same amount of hours in our days, whether you are a loser or a winner, we all have 24h, regardless who we are, but in this life those who are able to win, are those who can manage very well their time, and let me tell you this, your problem is not with time, you problem is with your priorities, you are so attached to what you are doing during your days to the point that you think that it is essential for your existence. So don't lie to yourself by saying that you have no time, I'm sure that you are doing a lot of things that only consume your time without giving something interesting back to you, Chatting on facebook, going out with your friends on a daily basis, watching TV nightly...all this shit is just killing some cells in your mind, you'll get no knowledge, no ideas, no inspiration by doing this, but most of you, are not doing what they do to get something in return, yet to just kill the time when they are so lazy to do something.
You don't need much to manage your time, here is what you need:
  • A pen
  • A notebook
  • Some wisdom to choose well your priorities
  • 10minutes before going to bed
  • Perseverance to not let any one interfere with your plan.
here is what you have to do, note that to change your bad habits you will need some time so be patient:
  • Note every single thing you do during  a day for about a week with the amount of time you spend on each one
  • Make two lists, the first one for necessities, and the second one for what you can replace
  • Then, start replacing the half time of the useless things by some useful stuff, but don't replace all the list at once, you will get some pain and you'll quit
  • Once you feel comfortable, start moving completely some of the bad habits.
  • Now you will be able to plan your days
Here are some advices for planning your days:
  • Start always by the easiest tasks
  • Always finish what you have started
  • Deliver some of your work to people you trust (not all the work LOL)
  • Be ready for the unexpected by having a plan B
Good luck !!

3:21 PM

Take some risk


Take some risk

Let me tell you this, some of you will not be successful only because they don't want to take some risk, and why is that? because they don't wanna fail, they don't believe that after failing they can get up stronger and powerful, the one who cannot learn from his mistakes will never be able to achieve something, and the one who is willing to reach greatness without being aware that he can't do it perfectly from the first time is just losing his time, and he will end up at a place doing some minuscule task that he doesn't even enjoy, I personally prefer failing  and trying to get up than doing something I don't like, but let me make it easy for you, the life you get is the result of your thoughts, if you believe that you are worth something, you'll go out and you'll get it, and that is by taking some risk and willing to face all the problems that will curb your progress, this set of people will live the life they want, they live life with their rules because at the end of the day nothing will stop them, they have a strong belief that the whole universe is in their side: 

“And, when you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it.”
― Paulo Coelho, The Alchemist

But the difference between this set of people and those who are not willing to take some risk, is that this last set, even if they say that they want some change, they will never get it because they do repetitively what they used to do:

"If you do what you have always done, you will get what you have always got"

But my message to this set of people is the following, imagine when you were a child, that when you failed the first time you have tried to walk you stopped, imagine you are still crawling , painful right ? so your life looks like that today, because people around are progressing and you are still doing only what you know to do.
8:05 AM

A great man-Nelson Mandela


A great man-Nelson Mandela

Yesterday the world lost a great man, someone who showed us that an individual with good principals will always reach his goals, he suffered a lot to get what he is worth, he failed not once but twice and more, but he never gave up, he never abandoned his call, regardless the pain, regardless the harm, because he believed in himself and in his motto.
But people as wise as him never died, they always leave a legacy to be appreciated by the generations after, and this a set of his best quotes:

  • "I learned that courage was not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it. The brave man is not he who does not feel afraid, but he who conquers that fear."
  •  "Education is the most powerful weapon which you can use to change the world."
  •  "For to be free is not merely to cast off one's chains, but to live in a way that respects and enhances the freedom of others."
  • "It always seems impossible until its done."

  •  "Money won't create success, the freedom to make it will."

Rest in peace Nelson Mandela.
1:39 PM

Get some change

Bruce lee Quote
Get some change

Change is possible, and change is gonna come sooner or later, but it may be a good change as it may be a bad change, because in life there is no stability, whether you like or not, you have only two choices, to be successful or to lose like cowards, there is no between, there is no average. But the problem of most people is that they are seeking for success without willing some change, they want to rise but they don't want to get up early, they want greatness, but they don't learn some new stuff, people are too lazy to progress, HOW DARE YOU ? you out there stop making excuses, stop saying it is because of him or her or that, because your dream belong to you only, so you have to assume your responsibilities and start working for your goals without waiting something from someone, show the whole world that you are worth something, show people how great you are. but it isn't about people, your main battle is with yourself, the only one you must impress and surpass is yourself, because happiness is the inner voice inside you which tells that you become a better version of you, that voice which is saying to you "Good boy keep doing that", but you ain't get that voice by lying to yourself, because your subconsciousness knows you better than you know yourself, to sum up my idea here I would like to say that change needs some action, and only action can lead you to greatness, because greatness is upon you, you just have to reveal it, as Eric thomas says : "Greatness is upon you, you better act like it".

2:59 PM

Stop being stupid

 
The good news is that you are waking up, because you are looking for some change in this humble blog, the bad news is that there are many things that will blow your mind and make you an asshole, and if you let this shit controls your life you will become a puppet of THE MAN, don't you know who is THE MAN? here is this scene from one of my favorite movies talking about THE MAN:


 The School of rock

But don't give up as he said :P, fight back every life's aspect that is making you so stupid. Here is the top 4 of things that THE MAN is using to make you his slave:

  1. Your smart phone: I always said to myself that smart phones were made to create stupid people, just think of it , when is the last time you were in a restaurant or a public place without seeing a group of person (calling themselves "going out together") and not even talking to each other ?  each one of them is so focused on his phone and doesn't give a shit about communicating.
  2. Facebook: actually 80% of INTERNET users open facebook at the first place, to do what ? to check if Catherine or July published a picture or a comment on their useless posts... just observe people on your facebook account, don't you see stupid people ?
  3. MTV: Music industry is the most powerful tool to blow your mind , guess why ! because we all love music and it can easily impact our-lives, so choose well what you are listening to and be careful.
  4. Commercial movies: this is another thing that we should be careful of, because movies can easily transmit some ideas about a superficial life that doesn't exist.
Don't understand me wrong, because I'm not saying here stop using this or watching that...because I believe that those things are tools with 2 edges, and it is up to you to use the proper edge for you, but don't let it control you and never make you life depends on something.
10:02 AM

Motivation

Motivation

The most difficult step while you are trying to reach your goals is to stay motivated and excited about your objectives the whole duration.as long as you can do this, be sure that you will achieve your targets, but most people cannot afford that, furthermore in general they quit and forget about  their dreams after a while of time, and some of them quit even before trying, just because someone told them they can't or it will not work. So be sure that motivation is the key of your success and it is the only thing that will enable you to get up once you are down.

Here is 4 things that will help you to stay focused and motivated:

  1. Do something you enjoy: As I said before, if you are doing some stuff you don't like or you cant stand, you will never be as motivated as if the stuff you were doing, is bringing to you some personal  satisfaction.
  2. Stay away from cowards: you know those people who put their fingers on your face and tell you can't do it or it is too difficult, don't ever believe them, because people can't do something themselves they wanna tell you you can't do it as Will smith said.
  3. Always start small: Start with 50% of your capacities and gradually develop and progress because Happiness is the progress
  4. Manage your time: I talked about this here ,but give yourself a reward (a piece of chocolate as an example, but not too much :P) after each task.
So keep in mind that your life belong to you only, you are the one responsible for your actions, choose well your objectives and go out and rise, because in life you have no choices but to rise or to be forgotten.
4:21 PM

Happiness is the progress


 Happiness is the progress

What is happiness ? to get a ferrari or to be very rich or maybe to be very famous ? haven't you ever heard about someone who had all this shit and killed himself ? true story, there was and there will always be somebody who has everything but he is suffering from depression. You may have the whole world, but if you can't progress you will always hear an inner voice inside you saying that you are still stupid. You may say bullshit, or what the F**k he is saying, but it is the truth, because your subconsciousness never lies and it will always tell the truth about yourself, and it is up to you to make it tell you whatever you want, and this is by progressing on whatever you are doing, even with some small progress you can convince your subconsciousness that you are the king of the world. Simply because it doesn't understand whether you were an average person and you became a very known rock-star, or you were a  simple gym trainer and you became Arnold schwarzenegger, your subconsciousness only understands that you started from A and you reached B, regardless you activity domain.

Happiness is an emotion that we can control but an emotion needs all the time some motion, so get up, move your ass, try something and progress, and be sure that you will feel like you own the world, and here according to me how to progress:

  1. Take some time for yourself and for thinking about what you are doing, 20minutes each day is not much but it will help you to know better yourself and your skills.
  2. Read books, OK ... I know, reading books is not the most amazing thing at the beginning but let me tell you this, I used to be like you, but once I started reading I became addict to it, I can't see my life without books.
  3. Surround yourself with some good skilled people, whom can always remind you that you have to progress.
3:46 AM

Time management

 

Time management

No one can dare to negate that time plays the most crucial rule in our lives. Not managing our days and not planning our actions is like being the slave of the others. because when you don't know what to do with your day, be sure there will be always someone to tell you what to do, and you'll accept because you had no plan. So control your life or life will control you. To be honest with you, nothing is more painful than to wake up the morning without knowing what you gonna do, you feel like your life is a set of events which have no interest.
Some people think that managing their time means to work hard the day long without stop, if you think so. Let me tell you that you are wrong. Because time management has more benefit than what you think. When you manage your time you'll have much time to enjoy your day, you may be a gamer, an otaku or whatever, you will always have some time to enjoy your passion, because planning your day means according to me, making the proper moment for the proper task, and by doing this you will see a big change in your life, let me tell you this secret , since the day when I started managing my time I became better on playing games because I was more focused on it.
the bottom line, time management is a vital factor and it has a lot of benefits, here according to me some of those benefits:

  • Feeling good
  • Life starts making sens
  • More time to learn new skills
  • Goal's and dream's achievement
  • Efficiency, even for small tasks
  • Less mistakes
So don't be a puppet, start right now making a list of your priorities and control your life.
7:51 AM

Life is like chemistry


Life is like chemistry

Life is so simple, to get things you have to sacrifice other things, so it is up to you to choose what to get and what to sacrifice, because you are the only responsible for your acts, choose well your objectives, and choose well what you want to sacrifice. Your life depends on it because the more important what you wanna leave is the more amazing things you'll get. you have the right to dream bigger, and if you think that you make it come true by what you are doing now, you are wrong, because it is something  that needs time, dedication and belief, in order to get what you want you have to change your bad habits and start some blessing rituals, and you need to organize your life, give up some sleep to get some hours for making your life better, it may be by reading a book or learning some new stuff, give up some parties to go to the gym, and more important give up waiting and start right now, here according to my humble point of view the four things you need to be successful:

1-Believe you can do it: without belief just stop and boost your confidence, you are the only one who can do it, never make excuses.
  
“Whatever the mind can conceive and believe, it can achieve.” 

2-Organize your life: Organization can start with the small things, look around you ... and arrange your stuff, make your room look better, without that you'll always feel sad and lazy.

“An idea can only become a reality once it is broken down into organized, actionable elements.”   

3-Work hard: no one is born as an expert we all have the same abilities, but there is those who work hard to be better, and there is those people who say " we are not good" even without trying.

 "Far and away the best prize that life has to offer is the chance to work hard at work worth doing." 

4-Never quit: you are working hard, your life is well organized, and still you are suffering, so don't give up before you get a reward, you suffered enough.

"Winners never quit and quitters never win."
5:04 PM

Never wait !!


Never wait !!

Yow ! Do you want something ? OK, wait, it will come to you ... No just kidding, you'll get shit by waiting. You are smart enough to understand that waiting will get you nothing but pain.
If you need something go out and look for it, deserve it and own it, never wait until it is given to you, because life never was and will never be about what you have, or how much do you have. At the end of the day it is always about how did  you get it, whether it is about money, fame or a good body. The steps you follow to get what you want are more important.Never ask for something you are not willing to work hard for it. In this regard, if you are doing something you hate, just give up and look for something you like to do, because the road to success is full of obstacles and stumbling-blocks and you'll quit at the first time you face a problem.

"Life ain't about if you'll be successful or you fail, life is about whether you'll give up like cowards or you'll carry on till you get what you want."

So success isn't easy, success is for those people who never wait and never quit, they work hard and they enjoy it, because they believe that sooner or later they will get a reward. Be like them , go out believe in yourself, work hard and ...never wait.
1:41 PM

You are gonna be successful

"You are so special to get an average life, shine on like diamond and make the whole world notice your uniqueness"

Hellya

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